N\u00ebna ime m\u00eb tha se martesa civile \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe, se n\u00ebse pranon nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb nuk do ta trajtoj\u00eb m\u00eb nj\u00eb grua me seriozitet dhe respekt dhe se mund t\u00eb harrosh ofert\u00ebn p\u00ebr martes\u00eb. Dhe sepse kjo ishte situata me miqt\u00eb e mi, ndoqa k\u00ebt\u00eb parim.<\/p>\n
Kisha nj\u00eb mikesh\u00eb q\u00eb jetoi me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb civile p\u00ebr pes\u00eb vjet, pas t\u00eb cilave ai e la at\u00eb dhe i b\u00ebri propozimin p\u00ebr martes\u00eb nj\u00eb gruaje tjet\u00ebr brenda nj\u00eb muaji. Para martes\u00ebs, un\u00eb dhe i dashuri im kishim nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Ai m\u00eb trajtonte mir\u00eb dhe e pranonte mjaftuesh\u00ebm vendimin tim.<\/p>\n
Ai madje e inkurajoi q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e shtynim martes\u00ebn. Prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb organizuan nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb pasur p\u00ebr ne, dhe pastaj u transferova p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar me t\u00eb. N\u00eb fillim isha e lumtur, e g\u00ebzuar q\u00eb po jetoja me burrin tim: do t\u00eb jetonim s\u00eb bashku dhe do t\u00eb kishim f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb shpejt, megjithat\u00eb, e njohova m\u00eb mir\u00eb burrin tim. Doli q\u00eb ai nuk dinte t\u00eb b\u00ebnte asgj\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Ai shkelte kufijt\u00eb e mi personal\u00eb. M\u00eb ndiqte kudo, pyeste kush m\u00eb kishte telefonuar, kush m\u00eb kishte d\u00ebrguar mesazh. Ai ofendohej kur i thosha se do t\u00eb shkoja t\u00eb takoja miqt\u00eb ose t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit.<\/p>\n
Sigurisht, nuk mund ta merrja me vete \u00e7do her\u00eb, dhe ai ankohej, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se burrat dhe grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb s\u00eb bashku. Disa her\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente fakti q\u00eb ai interesohej kaq shum\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn time, por e kuptova se nuk kishte asgj\u00eb romantike n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u2013 p\u00ebrkundrazi, m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb doja t\u00eb ikja, t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja divorc dhe t\u00eb kthehesha n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs sime.<\/p>\n
Ai nuk kuptonte se un\u00eb isha e brendshme dhe kisha nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kaloja pak koh\u00eb vet\u00ebm me veten time. Ai gjithashtu filloi t\u00eb sillej n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb paqytet\u00ebruar: nuk e mbyllte der\u00ebn e tualetit, nuk m\u00eb fshehte nevojat e tij fizike, grithjen, etj.<\/p>\n
M\u00eb thot\u00eb se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb normale, thjesht nuk kam m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb jetoj me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Po, kam m\u00ebsuar, por mendoj se kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja, ai thjesht b\u00ebn gj\u00ebra t\u00eb papranueshme. Shpresoja p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka ndryshe, por pas martes\u00ebs jeta ime u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb nj\u00eb makth. Por gjithashtu nuk mund t\u00eb shpjegoj te njer\u00ebzit pse vendosa t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj divorc nj\u00eb muaj m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00ebna ime m\u00eb tha se martesa civile \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe, se n\u00ebse pranon nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb nuk do ta trajtoj\u00eb m\u00eb nj\u00eb grua me seriozitet dhe respekt dhe se mund t\u00eb harrosh ofert\u00ebn p\u00ebr martes\u00eb. Dhe sepse kjo ishte situata me miqt\u00eb e mi, ndoqa k\u00ebt\u00eb parim. Kisha nj\u00eb mikesh\u00eb q\u00eb jetoi me … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9817,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-interesting"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9816"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9816\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9818,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9816\/revisions\/9818"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/factznews.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}